here I go again...

And tomorrow I leave for Nicaragua again, one more week of hot hot hot but missing my dear family!

trip!

So Jon had his school convention in Calgary last week, and we hitched a ride! Ethan fell asleep in the car on the way topick him up after NOT NAPPING all afternoon (grr)and all he wanted when we got out the car was a hug. So that wiped out all my bad feelings about the lack of nap :)

Then we went to the zoo and saw some pretty amazing animals!

Ethan's favorite? The giant fish!

Um, yes, this is what I've been hearing and seeing a lot of recently.

The W word. Whining. AARRRGGGHHH!!

For the last week and a half I feel like Ethan has turned into a whining machine. Is this normal toddler behavior?? Sometimes I feel like I need a time out just to keep from spazzing at him because I really cannot handle it. Whiny children have always been the only ones I dislike being around, and Ethan's turned into one of them! It's not all the time, but it has been pretty regular around here. Now, instead of saying "please" like he used to, he just looks at something and whines. Or he'll stand at my feet and whine. Or sit in the car and whine. Or stand by his toy shelf and whine. I think he might be getting frustrated because he's getting a better handle on his words, but still can't really express his wishes well. Any ideas on how to nip this whining habit, or do I just have to wait it out?

cookies and milk

How to eat a cookie with milk:

Get cookie in position.

Dip cookie.

Eat cookie.

Take a break.

Drink milk. Tada!

bye bye

After dropping Jon off at a conference this morning, I decided Ethan and I would head to Second Cup for a breakfast date. While we were there, Ethan made friends with the people at the next table (as always). When we were leaving, he was holding a sippy cup in each hand (we must have both milk and water, don't you know?) but he was trying to wave to them. I guess he figured that wasn't a very effective wave, because suddenly he had placed his cup on the floor and was waving furiously with his now free hand! He then picked up his cup again, and walked to the door. Of course, all the ladies at the table thought this was quite a hoot.

Mema

My mom comes over to watch Ethan once a week while I'm at work, and I don't know what she does with him but when she comes to the door, but he sure does love it! The minute he hears her voice at the door, he goes running! He squeals "mema, mema!" (Oma) and can barely contain himself. I'm serious - he gets so excited it looks like he's going to burst - fists clenched with arms kind of up, smile huge, and sometimes he even does a little jig. Honestly, it's the most excited reaction ANYONE gets. He doesn't even get this excited about Mommy. :)

New table!

My Grandpa and Dad made Ethan a little wooden table and two chairs. Of course, right now he likes to color the table, instead of just what's ON the table, but he'll figure that out. :)

Boys!

I love puffy vests and plaid shirts on little boys. I'm so glad I have a little one of my own to dress...at least for now!

Nose!

We've been teaching Ethan his different body parts, and "nose" was the first one he learned. When he first picked it up a couple months ago, he would walk around the house, holding his nose and saying "nose! nose! nose!"

However, we have now progressed to the point where he has discovered nostrils. He made this discovery in Costco one day, and thought it was pretty hilarious every time I tried to remove his finger from his nostril. In the car on the way home, he tried it with both hands, both nostrils. I took this picture at lunchtime that day, after I asked him to show me his nose. Obviously you can't tell from the picture, but he was saying "good boy, good boy" to himself...as he was shoving his finger up the orifice. Yes, good boy. Hmmm.

He's also discovered a newfound love for sticking his fingers up everyone else's nostrils, including mine, Jon's, and the goat at the zoo. Yes, we washed his hands after that one.

night night!

Ethan's been playing a game for the last month or so. It's called "night night". He pretends to go to sleep on beds, the floor, cushions, pillows...and apparently, in his high chair! He says "night night" then lays down and closes his eyes for a couple seconds, then pops back up with a big grin. :)

beds

So I need some advice:

We picked up a free frame for a toddler bed, but are now wondering if it's necessary. It requires a crib-sized mattress, so we'd have to get a second mattress (assuming we have a second child in the time when Ethan's in the toddler bed). How long can a toddler stay in a toddler bed? 1 year? 5? Is it worth buying another mattress, or should we move him straight to a twin size and put it on the ground?

Big boy!

I think Ethan's growing again! He slept until 9 today, then ate a big breakfast, snacked a couple times in the morning, nearly ate a whole salmon burger patty at lunch (plus a ton of corn and a piece of granola bar), and went down for a nap again at 1! The last time he did this he grew an inch I think :)

backyard renos

We've sure been enjoying fiddling around in our backyard this summer! Jon's been trying his hand at being a handy-man and I've loved having my very own garden! So far this summer we've dug a hole in the hill so we could build a retaining wall so we could move the shed to the corner so we could put the garden boxes (that Jon built) where the shed used to be (got all that? :). He also put a lovely raised bed in front of the shed that will soon have a big honeysuckle vine growing up the side, as well as some hostas and white bleeding hearts in the shade.

The raised beds are where the shed used to be, and the bed you see behind them (along the fence) is re-used sod, on top of some pretty wretched grass. I also spent a couple days filling in the low spot (aka mud puddle) by the boxes with some more mud, lots of straw, and newspaper.

We used the sod from the hill to make another bed next to the fence, and edged it with rocks collected from the Thomas homestead.

AND we moved the angled fence (that blocked off the driveway from the yard) so now it's straight. We didn't have enough fence boards to make it the slight bit longer that it needs to be now that it's straight between the houses, so Jon decided not to finish the back of half of the fence and instead build a littleplayhouse for Ethan with the fence as one wall. So that's what we're working on now. And I haven't taken pictures of it yet, but we also put in a little rock-lined raspberry bed beside the patio. Wow! Amazing how much plant life a small yard can hold.

words

I'm trying to figure out all the words that Ethan knows. Just for my own interest. And I'm trying to see if there's some sort of theme :) Probably a boring post for anyone who's not family! Off the top of my head, I can think of 40 words he uses regularly.

People:

Mummy, Dada, Bapa (Opa), Bampa (Grandpa), Mama (Grandma)

Food:

(s)nack, Cookie, Cracker, Gook (milk), bup (cup), Bubees (breakfast)

Nouns:

Doggie, Cat, Car, Truck, Bus, Shovel, Door, Hat, Shoes, Sock, Book, Box, Stairs, Baby, (s)cooby (Thomas' dog), Mamas (pyjamas), c(l)ock, bath, ball

Sounds:

Moo, Woof

Verbs:

Push

Other:

Up, Off, No, Mess (my personal favorite :), Hi, Bye bye, Uh Oh

from infancy

Usually I work Tuesday and Friday each week, but summer is a little weird and this week I worked Wednesday and attended a conference on Thursday/Friday. That means I've only had 1 or 2 hours a day with Ethan for the past few days. Today I came home and he looked...older. Not massively older, just a little more mature.

It made me realize how fleeting toddlerhood is. Toddlerhood is such a precious time - a time of intense learning, where everyday is a new adventure. The other day we spent an hour in Home Depot, just playing in the cabinets, pretending to paint the floor, and opening all the washing machines. I think he had more fun there than at the playground!

I love my job, and I think that helping children know Jesus is incredibly worthwhile. But I'm glad it's just 2 days a week. I couldn't handle any more away from my swiftly-growing little man. It already makes me choke up thinking that we'll never have these days back. This is what we get, and we have to make the most of it. But I am glad that we don't do it alone: we want to raise a boy, a man of integrity, and so does God. He will help us hold onto the precious times and show us how to appropriately love and discipline him just as He loves and disciplines us. When I am weak, He is strong.

"But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the holy Scripture, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus."

- 2 Timothy 3:14-15